How to get a boyfriend!

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How to find a boyfriend

Finding a boyfriend is something most girls think about but do not really have a clue on how to go about it.  These are some of the best techniques for finding the guy of your dreams!

#1. Understanding Guys

Guys are interesting.  They kind of do not know what they want until it is taunted right in front of them. For example, if a girl is to easy to “get” then he will be less interested in the girl that he can’t “get”. So what you have to do is be the type of girl that is not to hard to get, nor to easy.  You shouldn’t be afraid to play with him a little in the beginning and make yourself hard to get.  Guys love a good game of hard to get.  This is when they will step up their game and try and gain your attention.

#2. Check yourself before you wreck yourself

If you are searching for a boyfriend, you should be constantly looking your best at all times. This includes doing your hair and taking your time with your makeup everyday.  You should also be eating healthy, not just because it makes you look better but because it is a lifestyle that a lot of guys are attracted to.  You should also look into whether or not your clothes are fitting you.  By “fitting you” I mean if they are good for your body type.  This includes jeans and shirts that are not baggy, or even to tight.  Also anything that could be taken as “slutty” should not be worn either, unless you are looking for the type of guy that is attracted to that.  It is also important that you find your own unique style, do not try and wear what is currently in fashion but rather wear clothes that make you feel beautiful.

#3. Stay Positive

Being happy and overall positive is one of the best things you can do for yourself.  Loving yourself is the first step in finding someone that will love you as well. Listen, the first few nights you go out searching for someone you are most likely going to end up empty handed unless you are into the one night stands.  You have to keep getting out there and keep trying. Love happens in the least expected ways.  This is what you have to understand when you are trying to find a  boyfriend.  There is someone out there for you and you need to understand that it is going to take some work to find them. But you will find someone, the most important thing is to stay positive and never give up!

#4. Go solo

When a guy sees a group of girls, he can get pretty intimidated pretty quickly.  So if you want to increase your odds of a guy coming up to you, you should isolate yourself from your friends and be approachable! Soon after that you will have guys coming at you left and right.  Just be careful who you choose.

#5. Be outgoing

Outgoing girls are attractive girls.  Thinking of getting something to eat? Get out of your house and go to a local coffee shop! Think about it, the more you put yourself out there the more likely you are going to find someone you like.  Participate more in hobbies that interest you and you will find someone who has similar hobby interests!

 

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